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【题目】语法填空,阅读下面短文，按照句子结构的语法性和上下文连贯的要求，在空格处填入一个适当的词或使用括号中词语的正确形式填空，并将答案填在答题卡标号为1-10的相应位置上。

Making new friends means    【1】     (put) yourself at risk and asking others not only to accept you, but to like you and want to be around you as well .

【2】        ( fortunate ) , there is no perfect solution      【3】      this part of the process , so if you want to make friends , take a deep breath and jump right in .

【4】       first step to make new friends is figuring out what is holding you back . A lot of times people      【5】      are interested in making new friends don’t know why they don’t have them . They can’t see that    【6】    own actions are working against them .

Once you can identify what is keeping you from making new friends , you need to work through these concerns . This can be painful     【7】       you will need to put yourself outside of your comfort zones to see any real differences .

The next step is to shine in these social settings so that others will leave with a positive     【8】     (impress) . If you find social situations hard , just rely on a few simple rules .

When you feel      【9】      (confidence) that you’ve made some great friends , get out there and celebrate with them . No matter      【10】      you decide to do , the important thing is to celebrate your new friends and hopefully continue making more.